tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932061712006134369.post7852277025914688618..comments2012-12-06T05:38:54.542-08:00Comments on Thinking out Loud: We never learn do we????feline9http://www.blogger.com/profile/13312897216463064900noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932061712006134369.post-85872703536212339882011-07-02T21:20:35.672-07:002011-07-02T21:20:35.672-07:00It's so hard to find the balance. I sure strug...It's so hard to find the balance. I sure struggle with this. I don't want to be seen as lazy, when I am really ill or severely fatigued. And I know that for me, the pain is way worse when I am up and around too much, but .... I keep pushing myself to contribute and then pay for it.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07810736265869305528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932061712006134369.post-86476693560258843062011-07-02T04:48:15.593-07:002011-07-02T04:48:15.593-07:00Because we are women and feel guilty if we are not...Because we are women and feel guilty if we are not doing household stuff when we are not working. Did two loads of washing myself before I collapsed on sofa. vacuuming will have to be tomorrow as haven't the strength. But will annoy me everytime I look at it because not done. <br />It seems like we feel we have to keep doing things ,to try and show we are ok when we aren't.I think you should ask about a home help through GP or something as you really should be trying to rest more .If you don't you wil end up having more bad days than good days and not be able to go out! <br />I understand why you do it but wish you would rest more xx *hug*.Tabitcahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00685620846174596978noreply@blogger.com